View Point- The Dive Buddy issue

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    When I was just a newbie diver.  I looked up to those with all that equip. and tech equip.  Only to find out that the next week one of those divers solo'd and had that stupid final mistake with time to think about it.  How sad.
    I do buddy dive at all times when possible.  We all look out for each other and have helped others with a slipped tank or bad boyancy problem. Whatever.  These little problems to a seasoned diver can become a major with a newbie.  So keep a good eye out and help them.
    I was diving with a new dive buddy.  Hanging 3min at 15ft and seeing him sinking quickly.  Quick decissions and little time.  As it goes he was paralized and couldn't move.  Stopped breathing 3 times.  After 3 days he was fine except for a little slurred speech and some movement.  All because of some serious meds he told no one about.  I hear he's fine today. 
    I still look for those quiet seasoned divers for a dive buddy when on vac.  And actually shy away from those who think they know everthing about diving.  I'd rather help an excited newbie.  But the Great Lakes divers are the most seasoned divers that I know of anywhere.Thanks for your view points.
                  Time to go diving !  Got to go.  Mike B.